how to improve self-confidence (formula).

First. We have to understand that what is self-confidence, and how to self- confidence increase.

What is self-confidence?

When you want to do anything, then you have a fear that, when I will fail in this field, then what will I do. how your self-confidence decrease because you have some fear in your mind that this is, fear of failure, fear of family, fear of a society that what people think about me. if you can out all of this thing in your mind then you become a self-confidence, people.



I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose in life, therefore, I DEMAND of myself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment and I here and now promise to render such action.


I realize the dominating thought of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves in outward, physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality, therefore, I will concentrate my thought for thirty minutes daily, upon the task of thinking of the person I intend to become, thereby creating in my life mind a clear mental picture of that person.


I know thought the principle of auto-suggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the object back of it, therefore, I will devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of SELF-CONFIDENCE.


I have clearly written down a description of my DEFINITE CHIEF AIM in life, and will never stop trying until I shall have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.


I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth and justice, therefore, I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. I will succeed by attracting to myself the force I wish to use and the cooperation of other people.

I will induce others to serve me, because of my willingness to serve others. I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy because I know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring me success, I will cause others to believe in me, because I will believe in them, and in myself.

I will sign my name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day, with full Faith that it will gradually influence my thoughts and action so that I will become a self-reliant, and successful person.

                                   The 7 habits of highly effective people.
                        Nelson Mandela story.

Back of this formula is law of nature which no man has yet been able to explain. It has baffled the scientists of all ages. The psychologists have named this law "auto-suggestion" and let it go at that.

The name by which one call this law is of tittle importance. The important fact about it is- it WORKS for the glory and success of mankind, if it is used constructively.

On the other hand, if used destructively, it will destroy just as readily. In this statement may be found a very significant truth namely; that those who go down in defeat, and end their lives in poverty, misery, and distress, do so because of the negative application of the principle of auto-suggestion.


The subconscious mind, (the chemical laboratory in which all thought impulses are combined, and made ready for translation into physical reality), makes no distinction between constructive and destructive thought impulses. It works with the material we feed it throughout impulses.

 The subconscious mind will translate into reality a thought driven by COURAGE, or FAITH. The pages of medical history are rich will illustrations of cases of suggestive suicide.

A man may commit suicide through negative suggestions, just as effectively as by any other means. In a midwestern city, a man by the name of Joseph Grant, a bank official, "borrowed" a large sum of the bank's money, without the consent of the directors.

He lost the money through gambling. One afternoon, the Bank Examiner came and began to check the accounts. Grant left the bank, took a room in a local hotel, and when they found him, three days later, he was lying in bed, wailing and moaning repeating over and over these words, "My God, this will kill me! I cannot stand the disgrace, "In a short time he was dead. The doctors pronounced the case one of "mental suicide."

Just as electricity will turn the wheels of industry, and render useful service if used constructively: or snuff out life if wrongly used, so will the law of auto-suggestion lead you to peace and prosperity or down into the valley of misery, failure, and death, according to your degree of understanding and application of it.

If you fill your mind with fear, doubt, and unbelief in your ability to connect with, and use the forces on Infinite Intelligence, the law of auto-suggestion will take this spirit of unbelief and use it as a pattern by which your subconscious mind will translate it into its physical equivalent.


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